> Do all the messages go thru Maelstrom and then distributed?/

Only if the list is on maelstrom and the post sent through the list.

> I sit like an intermediary, forwarding all his messages to her!

She's not getting any via the list???

> A problem for a Listserv@maelstrom sPECIAList!

That would be Paul, [log in to unmask]

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