At 09:50 01/30/2004 Friday, Rich Greenberg wrote:
 >On: Fri, Jan 30, 2004 at 09:16:01AM -0500,Peter C.S. Adams Wrote:
 >
 >} But the problem remains: How do you notify the AOL subscriber? In my
 >} experience, such AOLers are not accepting mail from ANYONE and
messages from
 >} me bounce no matter what mail alias I try....
 >
 >You don't. They have shown that they don't want the list mail, so I just
 >delete them in a case like this.

Eventually "they" figure out that the dozens of emails that they have
been receiving have stopped and that "something" is missing/wrong here.

Depending how much effort you want to go thru, perhaps another list
subscriber at AOL (who is able to receive email) can be a cluemaster?

/P