Dear Sirs and/or Madams, We are an English couple living in Portugal. I am not linguistically qualified to host a mailing list in the Portuguese language, and therefore want to start one in English. My local services are not suitable for this. I would like to start a mailing list which focuses on the ways that relationships between spouses can reflect and keep alive the experiences of their youthful sexual encounters. The participants would be able to explore the idea that a relationship can be rejuvenated by re-enacting formative experiences. The idea being that some of the negative experiences men encounter in puberty can be turned into ways to make their sex life more exciting in later life. At the same time this can help to 'work through the experience' by role re-enactment, and turn self analysis into fun. Having received many compliments on the content of my newsletters and literature in the print media, I feel I can usefully input my ideas into such a list and have them opened up for wider discussion rather than remain as my lectures. If the idea is of interest, I am prepared to expound further. Sincerely, David Stevenson.