try the command
add spiramed [log in to unmask] Jim Bier    Note the ADD
 
At 09:09 PM 9/6/96 PDT, you wrote:
>Each time I try to subscribe this person, the listserver
>understands that I want to replace the name of my own
>subscription with his email address.
>
>
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Craig Gjerde, Ph.D.  [log in to unmask]  University of Wisconsin
                      Co-listowner for Family-L