It is your list set up the way you wish it to be...It is the responsibility of the sender to see where their mail is going....Darn...they are worried about where their flame is heading.....lordy lordy.... I have my lists sent up for replies to go to list...sometimes someone goofs...but they just write and say...sorry.....but then my lists don't have flaming....that is a big no no... Swampy ICQ#2925993 http://www.pinn.net/~swampy http://www.pinn.net/~swampy/spiritindex.html A woman wins by giving herself and other women permission-to eat; to be sexual; to age; to wear overalls, a paste tiara a Balenciaga gown, a second-hand opera cloak, or combat boots; to cover up or to go practically naked; to do whatever we choose in following or ignoring our own aesthetic. Naomi Wolf