>My preference is to use  "list, ignore".  Its consistant.  ...,respect
>is not consistant.

I use 'Reply to All' instead of 'Reply' when replying to list mail.
It gets very consistent results regardless of how a particular list is set up.
With membership in a dozen lists, I don't try to remember how each
is set up with respect to "Reply-To".

Gary VanderMolen