I know the LISTSERV headers are in compliance, please refer me to the
correct RFC areas to quote from to explain to this person that it's
not relaying.

------- Forwarded Message Follows -------
Date:          Thu, 12 Feb 1998 20:37:54 -0600
To:            [log in to unmask]
From:          patrick mccloskey <[log in to unmask]>
Subject:       Re: (Fwd) Undelivered mail

because neither thre from nor the to addresses are on our server.

pat

At 08:17 PM 2/12/98 -0500, you wrote:
>Patrick, would you mind telling me why this message would be
>considered a "relay"?
>
>------- Forwarded Message Follows -------
>Date:          Thu, 12 Feb 1998 15:04:45 -0500
>Reply-to:      [log in to unmask]
>From:          "LSMTP Lite for Windows NT v1.1a"
>               <[log in to unmask]>
>Subject:       Undelivered mail
>To:            [log in to unmask]
>
>An error was detected while processing the enclosed message.  A list of
>the affected recipient follows.   This list is in a special format that
>allows software like LISTSERV to automatically take action on incorrect
>addresses; you can safely ignore the numeric codes.
>
>--> Error description:
>Error-for:  [log in to unmask]
>Error-Code: 3
>Error-Text: Mailer pop3-2.INIL.COM said:
>            "550 relaying mail to INIL.COM is not allowed"
>
>Error-End:  One error reported.
>